Considering Divorce

The decision to divorce is never easy. It’s an emotional and complex process that touches every aspect of your life—from your finances to your family’s future. At the Van Den Heuvel Law Office, we understand the emotional toll and uncertainty you may be experiencing. Developing a thoughtful pre-divorce strategy can help you clarify your goals and make informed decisions during this challenging time. With the right preparation and support, you can move forward with confidence and peace of mind.

Financial and Asset Planning

Finances often become a significant focus in divorce. To protect your interests and your financial future, it’s beneficial to start organizing your financial life as early as possible. Key steps include:

• Compile Financial Records: Gather documents such as bank statements, retirement account information, mortgage details and credit card bills. This provides a clear picture of your financial standing.
• Inventory Assets and Debts: Create a comprehensive list of property owned and outstanding liabilities, including shared assets like the family home or vehicles.  
• Establish Personal Accounts: Open a bank account and, if needed, a credit line in your name to begin separating finances.  

A proactive financial plan is the foundation for a smooth divorce process and helps minimize potential disputes.

Preparing for Child Custody and Support

If you have children, they will be a central focus of your pre-divorce strategy. It’s important to prioritize their well-being while protecting your parental rights. Start by:

• Stay in Your Home. Keep up your parenting time and do not move out of a desire to “start over” as you may be giving up your custodial home and environment with the child(ren). This advice must be tempered by cases where there are other factors such as domestic violence. Special care must be taken there and other resources used to preserve your safety and that of the any minors in your care.
• Understanding Custody Arrangements: Consider how you envision co-parenting and custody schedules. Focus on what’s in the best interest of your children.  
• Reviewing Support Obligations: Child support calculations can be confusing. An attorney will guide you through state guidelines and help ensure a fair agreement is reached.  
• Documenting Expenses: Tracking current child-related expenses like schooling, extracurricular activities and healthcare can offer clarity when negotiating financial support.

At the Van Den Heuvel Law Office, we will assist you in tailoring a parenting plan that preserves family stability during and after the divorce.

Other Considerations for a Smooth Transition

Beyond finances and children, other important factors deserve attention:

• Evaluate Living Arrangements: Consider whether you will remain in the marital home or relocate. Start exploring real estate or rental options if a move is likely. Again, stay in the home until there is a parenting time plan if at all possible.
• Set Immediate and Long-Term Goals: Reflect on your priorities for your life post-divorce. Identifying these aspirations can provide direction and motivate you throughout the process.  
• Build a Support System: Surround yourself with trusted friends and family who can offer encouragement. Lean on professional resources, such as attorneys and therapists, to handle the difficult aspects of divorce.

Taking these steps prior to filing for divorce can reduce uncertainty and provide a clearer path toward your next chapter.

Contact the Van Den Heuvel Law Office Today

The Van Den Heuvel Law Office is here to provide guidance tailored to your unique needs. We stand by your side every step of the way, addressing your concerns and advocating for your best interests.  

If you’re ready to take the first step toward securing your family’s future, contact us today for a consultation. Let’s craft a plan that gives you confidence, clarity and peace of mind.